Basically, young people rarely hear some common sayings, but they can always vaguely hear what the older generation says, especially those living in rural areas, who can hear some widely circulated old sayings and proverbs. These are some wisdom passed down by our ancestors and have their own principles that can be used for reference and inspiration in daily life.
thatYou can知“男大七,也Not suitable for female freshmen”,这到底是什么意思呢?
The meaning of this sentence is very easy to understand. that is to sayMen have criteria for choosing a spouse, and women also have criteria for choosing a spouseIn the past, men and women in rural areas got married relatively early, as soon as they reached adulthood.
The old man said that if a man is older than a woman, he will know how to take care of her, and life will be relatively easier after marriage.
Many people think that older men are mature and stable, unlike young men in their early twenties who enjoy playing and do not take care of their families after marriage.
Moreover, most older men already have stable jobs or their own careers.This kind of man is worth entrusting for a lifetime. Marrying such a man naturally means there is no need to worry about finances, and men also have a sense of responsibility.
Although some people in rural areas say that men cannot marry wives who are older than themselves, even if they are one year older. But the elderly also often say that if a woman is three years older than a man, it is a good phenomenon for her to hold a gold brick when she is three years older.
Although the elderly often say this, in the feudal ideology of the villagers, they are unwilling for their sons to marry an older woman to return home. In the case of a woman being the eldest and a man being the youngest, it is inevitable that the woman will blame the man for not making progress, and the two of them will inevitably argue every day.
If the woman is older than the man, she has to be both a mother and a daughter-in-law.If a woman gives birth to a son, she feels like she is taking care of two sons. Women also put in a lot of effort in the family, which leads to more and more conflicts between the two parties, gradually leading to the step of divorce.
However, nowadays people’s cultural level is very high and their awareness of marriage is also high, so the probability of these existence is very small.
Nowadays, marriages are all free, and there is a significant age difference between men and women, yet they have lived particularly happy and sweet lives.
So this old saying is no longer fully applicable to young people today. After all, whether two people live happily or not is not influenced by age.But it depends on whether two people are compatible and have a common language. If two people tolerate, respect and love each other in life, then life will definitely be happy and fulfilling.
Kind reminder:A person’s innate luck cannot be changed, but their subsequent luck can be adjusted. If you want to understand your own destiny trend or change your luck, you can find a professional Feng Shui master in the Book of Changes, adjust Feng Shui, change auspicious names, and observe the same way to seek good luck and avoid misfortune.
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